Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Rumfy's Growth at 17 Weeks

17 Weeks Pregnant

Your Body
Talk about mixed messages. After spending your whole life trying to avoid gaining weight, now you're told you must pack on the poundage. But not too many pounds, of course. And not the wrong kind of weight. It's exhausting. ... 
Now's not the time to diet. You should never try limiting calories while you're pregnant. Don't worry about gaining more weight than you should while pregnant. You can lose it after the baby is born. Remember that a pregnant woman needs about 300 extra calories each day, which is just a small snack, like a small bag of trail mix or some crackers with cheese.

Your Baby
Speaking of packing on the pounds, that what it's all about for baby this week. He's adding fat stores that will keep him warm and cozy after he's born. Your baby's weight will increase approximately six times over the next four weeks. Good to know you're not the only one tipping the scale. Also this week:
Your baby is hard at work honing his sucking and swallowing reflexes—all the better for eating that 2 AM (and 5 AM, and 8 AM ...) meal in a few months! The finger- and toenails are beginning to grow from their nail beds, which would explain why he'll need them trimmed almost as soon as he's born! 
Your baby weighs nearly 5 ounces and is a little over 5 inches long—about the size of a baked potato (load on the butter and sour cream, please). 

Your Life
If the heir to your throne will have his or her own room (instead of his or her own sock drawer), now is the time to start thinking about how you'd like to decorate the nursery.
Don't spend a fortune. CLAUDIA! These things will get barfed on, pooped on, and chewed on—and that's just in the first week.  Choose durable and scrubable surfaces, such as nontoxic painted or varnished wood or heavy-duty, PVC-free plastics. 
Try to buy regular furniture that will grow with your child. For example, a regular dresser with a removable changing pad is a better investment than an official diaper-changing table.
Decorate the nursery to hide dirt. That means forget about the white rug.
Splash out on a fabulous new robe or a comfy pair of slippers for yourself. You'll thank yourself during those early days at home ... and those late-night feedings.

Articulate, Straightforward Article on Gay Marriage by...Rob Thomas?


Remember Matchbox 20?
Well, um, apparently there was something of a political braintrust hidden in there.

Check out this well-written, guileless Huffington Post article on gay marriage by non other than lead singer Rob Thomas.  
It's one of the clearest, simplest supports I've yet heard.
Who knew, y'all?


[excerpt]

I believe that America is a great nation of even greater people. I also believe that anyone who says that this is a "Christian nation" has RHS, or revisionist history syndrome, and doesn't realize that most of our founding fathers were either atheist or at least could see, even in the 1700s, that all through Europe at the time, religion was the cause of so much persecution that they needed to put into their brand new constitution a SEPARATION OF CHURCH AND STATE so that the ideals of a group of people could never be forced onto the whole. (I also find it funny when people point out to me that it says "one nation under god" in our pledge of allegiance, not realizing that this was an addition made in 1954 during the communism scare of the McCarthy era. It's not surprising, however, knowing that these same people would punch me in the mouth if I called Jesus a Jew.)

I believe the fact that an atheist, who doesn't believe in God at all, is allowed to enter into the holy land of marriage while a gay Christian is not, shows that this law is arbitrary. Are we to believe that anyone who doesn't live their life according to the King James Bible isn't protected by the same laws that protect those who do? Using the same argument that I've seen on the 700 Club, that would mean that Jewish, Hindu, or Muslim weddings are also null and void.

I believe that to deny this right to the gay population is to say to them, "this god is not your god and he doesn't love you." There isn't one person who is against gay marriage that can give me a reason why it shouldn't be legal without bringing God or their religion into it. Still, I'm amazed at the audacity of a small, misdirected group of the ultra-conservative Christian right wing, to spend millions of dollars, in a recession, on advertisements to stop two men or women who love each other from being able to be married, but when you present any opposition to them, they accuse you of attacking their religion. Isn't it funny that the people who are the quickest to take someone's basic rights to happiness are always the loudest to scream when someone attacks their right to do so?

...

The support of legalizing gay marriage is in no way meant to change the ideals of the section of Christians who believe that homosexuality is a sin. But we should refuse to let other people's ideals shape the way we live our lives. Each of us has a short ride on this earth and as long as we stay in our lane, and don't affect someone else's ride, we should be allowed to drive as we see fit.

Monday, April 27, 2009

Keeping up with Rumfy--Week 13!

This little alien weasel is actually starting to resemble a mini-human!


Your Pregnancy: Week 13
Welcome to the last week of your first trimester. Any day now you'll start to feel your energy (and libido!) return. You may even be able to hold down a bite of food. Imagine that! 


Your Body
Say hello to the girls! Your boobs are probably looking pretty glorious at this point. You can thank your hormones for your newfound cleavage. (Yes, those same hormones that had you hugging the porcelain throne for the past 12 weeks. See, they're not all bad!) Estrogen and progesterone are stimulating the milk-producing glands in your boobs and making them grow, grow, grow. Your belly may be popping out a bit now as well. If you're feeling "huge" already, just wait. You ain't seen nothing yet! 

Your Baby 
Your baby can make a fist and even suck his or her thumb this week—both skills that are über-cute during infancy ... and not so much at the age of 9. If you're really lucky, you might catch a glimpse of baby's thumb sucking on an ultrasound photo. That's a framer! Other exciting developments include:

Your baby's eyelids are fused shut to protect his eyes as they develop. His bones and skull are solidifying and soon itsy-bitsy ribs may appear. (Baby ribs! How cute is that?!) Baby's intestines are finally right where you want them—in his or her belly instead of poking out into the umbilical cord. Baby's tooth sockets are all loaded and ready to pop out baby teeth six or seven months after baby is born (causing baby a lot of pain and you a lot of lost sleep).

Your baby-to-be now weighs about 20 grams and is nearly 3 inches long, or about the size of a Nutter Butter, covered in chocolate. OK, it doesn't have to be covered in chocolate, but isn't everything better that way?

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

So, if you didn't know it, Claudia is 11 weeks pregnant

This is a very exciting time for all of us Chicks!

Not to mention that by this week, "Rumfy" (the pre-child) has begun to look much more like a baby than an alien weasel.  
We've been monitoring his/her progress on this site:
 
Your Baby
All of your baby's vital organs are now formed and functioning, so the risk of defects decreases this week as your baby becomes less susceptible to outside influences. Phew! Other exciting developments include:

Baby's ears are assuming their proper place this week and the fingernail and toenail beds are beginning to form. Your little "pumpkin head" really lives up to his nickname as his head is nearly as big as the rest of his body.

Your baby now weighs a third of an ounce, about the same as two small, Starbucks-sized packets of sugar, is about 2 inches long, the length of one of those sugar packets. Isn't that sweet? 

We still have another 9 weeks before we'll know Rumfy's gender for sure, but I just feel like we have a girl on the way.

Claudia promised to post the first-ever photo of the baby later today.

Friday, March 20, 2009

best news ever



From the Sun-Times...
We've heard rumblings about Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel splitting before, but not for a long time. Despite the usual pooh-poohing denials from the stars' official camps, two friends of the ''J's'' (as a longtime Biel buddy calls them) insist there are problems in paradise.

While the duo are still living together, Biel's friend reports, ''Things are not going as smoothly as [Biel and Timberlake] would want people to think they are.''

YOU GUYS! YES! I'M IN! FINALLY. AFTER 10 YEARS. HE WILL BE MIIIIIIIIINNNNEEEE!! 
(shakes fist to the gods, David Sedaris style). 
Biel can suck it.

Futursex and Lovesounds-
Smashes

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Wants It :: Lit Alert

I read about Craig Taylor in this month's INTERVIEW.
He's only 32 and looks like a cute accountant.

I want his book.
Big time.

As seen in the Guardian, these short, evocative works based on overheard conversations in cities and towns across the country, Craig Taylor captures the state we’re in with humour and pathos and perfect timing.

A lonely pensioner desperately tries to communicate with a young immigrant; a funeral director’s love of Manchester United proves unhelpful when negotiating with the bereaved; two overly-vigilant mothers wrestle with their paranoia in the queue for Santa’s Grotto; a widow recounts her disastrous return to the world of dating and a father realises his son is growing away from him as he helps him tie his football boots.

Sometimes funny, sometimes heartbreaking, these tiny plays in which every one of us could have a starring role are windows into other people’s lives that reveal the triumphs, disasters, prejudices, horrors and joys of twenty-first-century life in Britain.
(review is here)

Here's one tiny play in a bookshop.
Here's one tiny play starring bankers
They make excellent studies in dialogue construction and are by turns hilarious and poignant.  

Gimme!


Saturday, March 7, 2009

Lovely



























I am prepared for amazing things to happen.

I can handle it.

(photo from wisebread.com)
(quote from Me and You and Everyone We Know)

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

The V-Day Mixtape Challenge: COMPILED


And if you were dating all 4 of us and we REALLY REALLY liked you, we'd probably include this supplemental b-sides disc with the following runner-up songs.
  • Gotta Have You (The Weepies)
  • Yellow (Coldplay)
  • Elevator Love Letter (Stars)
  • All of Me (Billie Holiday)
  • Feels Like Home (Chantal Kreviazuk)
  • Secret Smile (Semisonic)
  • Sea of Love (Cat Power)
  • Strangers in a Car (Marc Cohn)
  • I Will (The Beatles)
  • Amber (311)
  • You are the Best Thing (Ray LaMontagne)
  • Sway (Bic Runga)
  • Under My Thumb (The Rolling Stones)

Read the original justifications of our taste here:


xoxoxo

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

I have found him--my dream date

Date Wrecks posted this little gem a few months ago, but I've only just stumbled upon him.


Line up, ladies, line up.
Please read the entire thing, and peruse the photos.  
The last caption is the BEST of the bunch, so don't get lazy.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Trying to find a way to use this in my Side Project Show

I've liked this song for a long time, but I just decided to look up the video on a whim.
It's breathtaking.

This is the most beautiful post-breakup song I know.


This scar is a fleck on my porcelain skin 
You tried to reach deep but you couldn't get in 
And now you're outside me you see all the beauty 
Repent all your sin ...
There's one thing I have to say so I'll be brave 
You were what I wanted, I gave what I gave 
I'm not sorry I met you 
I'm not sorry it's over 
I'm not sorry there's nothing to save 

Subway Crushes--We've All Got 'Em


Now we know how to find 'em.


I'm pretty sure these are mostly about me.  So.


Thought for the Day

Philosopher Antonio Gramsci: 
The challenge of modernity is to live without illusions 
and without becoming disillusioned.
photo from Le Love

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Christ on a Bike...

How perfect is this?


HAPPY MARDI GRAS!!

Thursday, February 19, 2009

mixtape challenge: shut up, I've been busy

Mixtape Challenge: Lauren

Ok, I came up with the following list based on what I'm listening to right now & what just randomly popped into my head (since most of my favorites were STOLEN by my ALLEGED FRIENDS). Here's what I got. (I would make it all pretty & formatted & insert album covers, but I'm at work & therefore gotta make it quick.)

1. "A Message" - Coldplay
This song is so sweet, great to sing, and it breaks my fuckin HEART when he wails "I looooove you, PLEEEASE come hooome!" at the end.

2. "My Love for You is Real" - Ryan Adams
This plays on Starbucks right now, and I hadn't previously heard it (he's so sneaky about letting you think you know all his music and then BAM, outta left field, he's put one out in some genre you didn't even know about, and it's The Greatest Thing You've Heard Since You Last Discovered One of His Albums). Anyway, if you can get over the recent Mandy Moore Engagement WTF-ness, you will fall in love with this song. Fave lyric: "It's river-long/ rock-strong/ true & wild as hell./ Honey now/ my love/ for you/ is real."
(Actually, the lyrics-look-up-sites are in dispute about the "true & wild as hell" part, but that's what I think he's saying and I love it.)

3. "Linger" - the Cranberries
Come on, I don't have to explain this. "You know I'm such a fool for you."

4. "Keep On Lovin You" - REO Speedwagon
This song makes me fist-pump harder than any other 80's ballad. I love it. I think my favorite line is "Instead you lay still in the grass/ all coiled up and hissin" because he uses the correct conjugation of "lie," which I don't even do. Props.

5. "Madly" - Tristan Prettyman *I had it misspelled earlier
This is another one I learned of through Starbucks, and it's really fun & catchy. Also, it's about knowing you should be over someone but not being able to let them go. Which I can relate to right now. (Shut up.) And my favorite thing about it is not a specific lyric, but the claps/rhythmic guitar pattern in the verses.

BAM!

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Chiming In

mixtape challenge: SMASHLEY





1. The Temptations: The Way You Do The Things You Do (1964)
I love this song and it always makes me happy. I remember this song at my aunt and uncle's wedding when I was 10 years old. This is exactly how you would want someone to think of you and hopefully spend time with them. It sounds like how good love should sound.
"well, you could've been anything that you wanted to
and i can tell, the way you do the things you do."

2. The Postal Service: Nothing Better (2003)
"will someone please call a surgeon, who can crack my ribs and repair this broken heart."
Is there any more I need to say? This song is amazing.
Sidenote: used this song as a project in my choreography/improv dance class senior year. one of my favorite projects.


3. Bob Marley: Waiting in Vain (1977)
This is a tough one so I'll just spit it out. I started to fall in love with someone to this song. I remember the moment and the day and this song was playing. And now, it hurts to listen to. But other than the nausea that now accompanies this song, it's fantastic. I love Marley. So I better suck it up if I want to listen to him at all this summer.
"from the very first time I rest my eyes on you girl
my heart says follow through"
le sigh.

4. Justin Timberlake: LoveStoned/I Think She Knows Interlude (2006)
Well, Justin is my boyfriend of 10 years. We make sweet sweet love ALL the time.
This song is so sexy. It's like you're in a club surrounded by people and all of sudden, he notices you and wants you and then you dance together and get close. As Claud would say, "HOT." And then the song turns into the interlude and your out of the club and gettin' busy. UGH. I'm such a shameless ho.
I'm going to take a cold shower now.
"and now i walk around without a care.
she's got me hooked, it just ain't fair
i'm lovestoned and i could swear
that she knows. i think that she knows."

5. Iron and Wine: Such Great Heights (2006)
So poetic and cozy. And yes, this is technically a Postal Service song but this version is so lovely. It sounds like snuggling on a rainy day.
"and true, it may seem like a stretch, but

its thoughts like this that catch my troubled
head when you're away when I am missing you to death"

Runner-ups:

Coldplay: Yellow
Billie Holiday: All of me.
Cat Power: Sea of Love
The Beatles: I Will
311: Amber
The Rolling Stones: Under My Thumb



I'm going to puke now.
HAPPY SINGLES AWARENESS DAY!

Friday, February 13, 2009

Got your tape and it changed my mind

Mixtape Challenge: Chelsea






Okay, Claudia stole "A Case of You," but I bartered with her for this first one:
  • Jeff Buckley "Lover, You Should Have Come Over" (1994)
This song breathes sex. The whole album is liquid love, but this song in particular just drives it home. The thing is, though, that the lyrics are also poignant and haunting. I know that word gets used a lot to describe Buckley, but come on, folks. I have to thank Claud for introducing me to this song during college. I know I've fallen asleep to it 1000 times.
It's never over, my kingdom for a kiss upon her shoulder
It's never over, all my riches for her smiles when I slept so soft against her
It's never over, all my blood for the sweetness of her laughter
It's never over, she's the tear that hangs inside my soul forever
  • Jim Croce "Had to Say I Love You in a Song" (1974)
Any long-haired man or woman from the 70s with an acoustic guitar is always going to have a special place in my heart. I blame this on my parents. I've been listening to Jim Croce since the cradle, and this might not even be my favorite song of his, but it's just stunning in its simplicity and honesty. Here's a guy who can't get the words out to tell his beloved how he feels, so he wakes her up in the middle of the night to sing her a song he wrote. And it's A FORKING TRUE STORY!! Croce really wrote that song for his wife and woke her up with with it! And then it wasn't released until after he had died in that plane crash. Can you imagine being her? Jeezum. Anyway, it's perfect.
Every time the time was right all the words just came out wrong
So I'll have to say 'I love you' in a song.
  • Frances Cabrel "Je t'aimais, je t'aime, je t'aimerai" (1995)
I think Andrew West is actually the one we can thank for putting this on a French CD he made for us after we all got back from Nova Scotia after my second summer at French camp, the summer I turned 17. The lyrics just make the heart ACHE, y'all. I know they're in French, but it's worth your time to look up a translation, believe me. The love story is epic! The title translates to "I have loved you, I love you, I will love you" (not "I love the door, I love the floor, I love you" as Jenny Byrd once believed). We all used to say we'd have this played at our weddings, but Claud's the only one of us who's actually had one of those and she totally fell down on the job.
Mais quoi que tu fasses / L'amour est partout ou tu regardes
Dans les moindres recoins de l'espace / Dans les moindre rêve où tu t'attardes
(But whatever you do / Love is everywhere you look)
(In the tiniest corner of space / In the smallest dream where you linger)
  • The Counting Crows "Anna Begins" (1993)
I have loved me some Counting Crows since the 6th grade. I have to thank Katy Allgood, wherever she may be, for introducing me to them during a lip-syncing contest at her slumber party that year. And Lauren has a point that Adam Duritz is the sexiest ugly man alive. On a somber note, I have seen the Crows live twice, and they have never played this song. But it's everyone favorite! It's about falling in love way too fast, and realizing it's happening, and freaking out a whole lot, but staying in it because something in your brain says this. is. it. So thanks, Adam. Before I really knew about anything, you taught me about true love.
Every time she sneezes, I believe it's love
And oh Lord, I'm not ready for this kind of thing
  • Billy Joel "She's Always a Woman" (1977)
This is, again, going back to my childhood years. My dad is a HUGE Billy Joel fan. It's hard to pick one Joel song about love that's better than the others, but I have always had a huge affinity for this one. It's kinda trite, it's kinda played out, but you know what, I still wish that someone could look at me with all my faults and all my insecurities and all my complex attributes and say, "Fuck it. I love her anyway." My best friend in high school, Gregory, used to play this on the piano and my heart would melt.
She can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child
But she's always a woman to me
Runners up include
  • "Elevator Love Letter" by Stars
  • "You're the Best Thing that Ever Happened to Me" by Ray LaMontagne
  • "Feels Like Home" by Chantal Kreviazuk
  • "Strangers in a Car" by Marc Cohn (which I put on EVERY SINGLE mix CD I made in high school and college. You girls remember that.)

(I cut a tape of my favorite songs...)

Mixtape Challenge: Claudia

via ableandgame


1. A Case of You - Joni Mitchell (1974)

The best version (in my opinion) is off of Miles of Aisles. I dare you to listen to this song and not feel something. Lauren first introduced me to this song (and all things Joni) our senior year of high school. This song in particular struck a chord with me due to its references to Canada (where we had just spent the summer) and my memory of a certain someone I met there. Now I just love it for what it is: one of the most achingly beautiful songs I know...
I remember the time that you told me, you said/ "Love is touching souls"/ Surely you touched mine/ Cause part of you pours out of me/In these lines from time to time

2. Sex on Fire - Kings of Leon (2008)

As the name suggests, it's hot and sexy. Hot as a fever, rattling bones/I could just taste it, taste it/If it's not forever, if it's just tonight/ It's still the greatest, the greatest/ You, your sex is on fire/Consumed with what's to transpire. Lead vocalist Caleb Followill puts it best, "there's always been an element of sex in our music, so I thought I'd just wrap it all up in one song..."


3. Let You Down - Dave Matthews Band (1996)

I know some of you are so over DMB, but you cannot deny this is a great song. To this day, it is my my all-time favorite of theirs. Both the lyrics and Dave's singing voice are playful and seductive: I have no lid upon my head, but if I did/ You could look inside and see what's on my mind/ Oh, it's you.

4. I'm on Fire - Bruce Springsteen (1984)

This song is almost as old as I am, but you can't argue with The Boss. Such a great ode to forbidden love (or lust.) Hey little girl is your daddy home/ Did he go away and leave you all alone/I got a bad desire/ Oh, I'm on fire/Tell me now baby is he good to you/ Can he do to you the things that I do?/I can take you higher/ Oh, I'm on fire

5. Under You - Better than Ezra (1998)

This song will always and forever remind me of college. I'm sure Chelsea, Lauren, and I drove around the lakes singing this at the top of our longs as we did with many, many songs. I love it because of the whole "love is all you need" vibe (And Ramen noodles at 4:30 in the morning/Where we barely could survive,/I was never more alive) and because of the way he lets her memory overtake him completely (Under you, I feel your blood flowing out slowly/Under you, let go completely feeling you take over me/Take over me.)


Runners up for the mixtape are: "Sway" by Bic Runga because it is such a "loving you from afar" ballad (I'm practicing your name so I can say it to your face...) and "Secret Smile" by Semisonic because of that whole "behind closed doors" vibe -- Nobody knows it, but you've got a secret smile, and you use it only for me...

Feel free to comment with your own suggestions and/or reasons why my picks rock/suck. Happy Valentine's Day everyone!

The V-Day Mixtape Beat-Down


All right, ladies.
It's time to compose our first-ever High Fidelity-style mixtape.

This is in honor of Valentine's Day tomorrow.
You have 24 hours.
Challenge: Issued.

Guidelines:
  1. Submit 5 love songs, any genre
  2. Give the name of the song, name of the artist (preferred, not original), and year of recording (preferred, not original); do not use an artist more than once
  3. Tell us your favorite line, the one that drives the point home
  4. Give us a little background on when you fell in love with the song or why you think it's perfect
  5. Tell us if you love this song because of or in spite of a particular person or time in your life
And DO NOT try to use any Jeff Buckley or Joni Mitchell, as Claud and I have already come to blows over these two artists.
Let's try to minimize the redundancies.

This will result in the greatest 20-song Valentine's Mixtape Ever!!!

And we can put this on the cover.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Aw, BOLLOCKS!

Damn Everything.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

ladies, let's not go to this place

WTF?! Seriously, ladies, let's keep the CRAZY in check, ok?!

One-night stand man wakes to find lover has carved her name into his arm
A drunken fling ended in disaster for a man who woke up to find his lover's name carved into his arm.
Dominique Fisher, 22, used a Stanley knife to write her name on Wayne Robinson's upper arm.
She inflicted the injuries on the 24-year-old at her home in Blackburn, Lancashire.